When you have an experience, you attribute a meaning to that experience. As everyone’s history is different, every person will attribute “good luck” “bad luck” “this means that” “that means this” in completely unique ways. What meaning are you attributing to your experiences today? Is it an old meaning your grandparents gave your parents that isn’t actually the meaning you want an experience to have? What if you attributed to every experience “this is happening so I can grow and learn what I came to learn, I am deeply thankful and thoughtful of these learnings.” Try it on, especially where you are feeling the greatest resistance.